Molly Gorny6 years, 7 months ago
It sounds from your question that you are preparing your own eulogy and want to make sure that both your biological father and your stepfather are properly recognized. We suggest framing things in terms of how lucky you have been to have two supportive fathers. In today’s world of blended families, this is not always the case. You might start with your step-father. Talk about the substantial impact he has had on your life and acknowledge how supportive he has been of your relationship with your biological father. You can then move on to talking about the relationship you have with your biological father.
We are sure that both of your dads know how much you care about them and this will certainly shine through in your words. If you speak from the heart, they will both be able to find comfort and acknowledgment.