Death and dying are not topics that most of us are particularly fond of thinking about. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t. In fact, not only should we talk about them, we should plan for them. Getting in the right frame of mind to start the process is easier said than done. Luckily, there are a lot of resources out there to help. One source that is easy to overlook is the TED Talk. TED Talks about death and dying offer rich narratives that can help us start thinking about what is truly inevitable. They can also help us learn how we can shape the way we experience the end of life.
If you’re not familiar with Gail Rubin you probably should be. Gail, who also goes by the moniker of “The Doyenne of Death,” has a website called A Good Goodbye. The website is filled with insightful information regarding grief and how to deal with it. In October of last year, Ms. Rubin gave a TED Talk about death and dying. The talk was witty, insightful, and touched on things that we all need to think about. To be more specific, planning for what happens when we die.
If you aren’t familiar with TED Talks, the concept is relatively simple. People with something to say give a video talk no longer than 18 minutes on just about any topic. Of course, it’s a bit more complicated than that but lucky for us there is an organization, TED [Technology, Entertainment, Design], behind the scenes facilitating the presentations and making sure the content is distributed.
TED is a nonprofit devoted to spreading ideas, usually in the form of short, powerful talks (18 minutes or less). TED began in 1984 as a conference where Technology, Entertainment and Design converged, and today covers almost all topics — from science to business to global issues — in more than 100 languages. Meanwhile, independently run TEDx events help share ideas in communities around the world. (from www.TED.com)
Not all of the topics covered in TED Talks are as complex or sensitive as death and dying, but all are thought-provoking. That’s because TED looks for “engaging, charismatic speakers whose talks expose new ideas that are supported by concrete evidence and are relevant to a broad, international audience.” To be sure, each of the speakers brings his or her own unique perspective to the topic whether it be the exploration of a scientific theory or an account of a personal journey.
That brings us to the topic of death and dying. For each of us, it is very personal and our perspective is colored by our own unique experiences. The same can be said for the TED Talks that cover the subject. The speakers cover a variety of angles related to death and dying and may not, in fact, hold exactly the same point of view that you do. Nevertheless, his or her story will give you something to think about and may coax a tear or a smile along the way.
With that in mind, we’ve gathered what we think are some of the best TED Talks about death and dying and have posted them below. We hope that once you watch or listen you’ll take Ms. Rubin’s advice and think about your own plans.
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